Busy, Not Bored
05/04/2009
Question:
I hear the words “I’m bored” from my child several times a day. Do you have suggestions (besides TV and video games) to keep her busy?
Bored? Even with toys, games and entertainment of all kinds, parents still hear this complaint. There’s help, though, says Amber Carvan, who writes for
kidscraftweekly.com and—not by coincidence—recommends crafting as a way to keep boredom at bay.
Here’s what you had to say:
I encourage my kids to be creative—write letters, make coloring books or put on shows for the neighbors. If they say they’re bored, they help with chores around the house.
—Jodi E., St. Paul, MN, mother of two
Age-appropriate household responsibilities not only occupy children, but give you chances to have one-on-one interactions with them. Chores also empower your kids to be active family members.
—Gina R., Baldwinsville, NY, mother of one
I always find that if I’m willing to give one of my kids my undivided attention, he or she will stop complaining, turn off the TV and games, and do just about anything with me.
—Ken A., Mankato, MN, father of five
I taught my eldest daughter how to make slice-and-bake cookies, and she loves it. She lines the trays, sets the timer and serves them up.
—Dean T., Stoughton, WI, father of two
My daughter enjoys organizing things, so I’ll give her a project—the pantry, for example—and let her set up a system for the whole family.
—Elaine B., Oregon, WI, mother of two
Remember that a plea of boredom may simply be a cry for you to interact with your child, says Carvan.